However, this fact is definitely bittersweet. Even though it is sad that we no longer have Payton as a little baby, there is absolutely nothing more fulfilling, rewarding, or enjoyable than watching her grow and learn new things! She has the biggest personality, and sometimes I feel like I have a little adult walking around with me instead of a three year old! Haha! She knows all of her letters, shapes, and colors, and is DEFINITELY aware of her likes, dislikes, and preferences! We are starting to see that the "3's" bring some drama with them, and can cause some challenging behavior issues, but all in all, this has been the most fun stage yet!
The girls and I stay pretty busy during our days at home. I have definitely learned that I am happier as a stay-at-home mom if we stay busy and get out and do things often! On Mondays, we go to play group, Tuesdays are gymnastics, Wednesdays we go to play group again, and Thursdays we go to Kindermusik. Friday is usually our catch up day around the house. Payton has been doing so well in all of her classes! Gymnastics has been a bit of an adjustment, because this is her first class that she has been in that I am not a part of. This has also been the longest class, (1 hour) which is quite a while for a 3 year old to stay focused and follow directions. However, she has made so much progress since the first class, so we are super excited about that! We feel like this is going to be good for Payton to continue, since she will be starting preschool in the fall. I have actually been super anxious about this, because in the past, Payton has struggled to stay places without me. However, I am starting to realize as I am watching her progress that this is going to be a much bigger adjustment for me than it is for her. lol! One of her best friends, Tinley, is going to be in her preschool class this fall, so I am sure that this will help with any separation issues. Although, I think mommy might need a dose of some anti-anxiety meds before the first day! Haha! ;) It's funny, because when I was teaching, I swore I would never be "that" parent, and now, I am totally "that" parent! lol! Parenting has taught us many things, but one of the main things it's taught us is that you never say never! Haha! ;)
In addition to all of the developmental milestones that Payton is accomplishing, she is also growing to have the biggest heart! At times, out of nowhere, she will run and throw her arms around my neck with a big "I love you, mom!" This definitely brings a smile to my face! Also, the other day, she said to Ryan, "Daddy, I told God that I like you." This was such a sweet thing to hear. We have really been trying to emphasize the importance of thanking God for all of our blessings, and in her mind, this was Payton's way of telling God that she was thankful for daddy! :) She also loves to help take care of Elin, and is quick to point out if Elin is ever upset and tries to analyze what we can do to fix it. Such a sweet big sister!
On Payton's birthday, we had such a good day! Ryan took the day off, I surprised Payton with some cake batter pancakes for breakfast, she went to gymnastics class, we ate at Pizza Hut with one of her good friends from class, Addy, and her mom Stephanie, and then went to the park and let the girls play. Once we arrived home we let Payton open her presents from mommy, daddy, and Elin, took a walk, and grilled out for dinner. It was such a gorgeous day! The following weekend, we had a "Veggie Tales" themed birthday party with all of our close friends and family.
Payton Elaine- Please know that you make our lives SO great! We are so proud of the little girl that you are becoming and cannot wait to see where the Lord takes you in life. Our prayer daily is that we are doing all we can as parents to instill God's love within you and that we are following His direction as he helps us lead you to follow His plan. Everyday with you is such a blessing, and we love you with all of our hearts! Happy 3rd Birthday Sweet Girl!
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